Want to Stand Out? Forget Being ‘Unique’
If I read one more piece of copy that claims a product or service is unique, I’ll scream.
OK, not out loud. But you get the idea.
How many times have you received this advice? “If you really want to stand out, you’ve got to be unique! Tell your audience why they should buy from you, what’s unique about you!”
Oy. That’s twice as unique.
For the rest of this post, can we please agree to forget everything we’ve ever believed about being ‘unique’?
I’d like to begin at the beginning and explain why this is a terrible suggestion, fueled by the Buzz-Phrase of the Century, the Unique Value Proposition (UVP).
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What does it mean to be unique? The dictionary definition: “Being the only one of its kind; unequaled, unparalleled or unmatched.”
That’s a tall order. I don’t have the stats to prove it, but I bet no company fits this description 100%.
Assuming this is true, it stands to reason that no one person, product, service or company is truly unique. Yes, some elements of uniqueness may exist. But that’s not the same as being unique, based on the definition.
I believe overuse of the word ‘unique’ is simply a lazy habit. To prove it, I just used the Synonym Finder in Word to uncover these 8 alternatives to ‘unique’:
• sole
• one of a kind
• single
• exclusive
• exceptional
• inimitable
• distinctive
• matchless
Surely, you can take 3 seconds to look for an alternative? Surely, you can understand how expanding your vocabulary makes your copy that much more interesting?
So here’s the thing…I vote to ban the word ‘unique’ from copywriting.
Who’s with me? Show of hands?
Naturally, each of us hopes to stand out in some way. If we’ve pledged to avoid ‘unique’, then how should we describe our services?
First, decide whether uniqueness is even important for your business. If you’re selling a rare type of caviar, or the only Edsel left on the planet, uniqueness may be a plus. If you’re a copywriter, there are many other more important qualities that convey what makes you different from your competitors.
Sometimes, sticking with the pack instead of attempting to be completely different is your best strategy. Experimenting with forging new trails can backfire. When building a website, designers understand that visitors expect certain elements of the site to be placed in certain areas. Companies who deviate from what is expected often experience sales trouble…because they tried too hard to be different! People want that logo in the top left corner and that phone number in the top right- and no ‘unique’ design is going to change what people expect.
While we’re purging unique from our vocabularies, let’s kill off other overused concepts: ‘unparalleled’ anything, ‘proven to be the best’, ‘head and shoulders above the competition’….Unless you’ve got cold hard facts and numbers to back up your claim, you’re better off not making promises you can’t keep.
Just imagine a potential customer reading your copy. The product or service is “unique, has no equal, offers the best of the best in customer service, has never been attempted before, achieves the highest standards of excellence, blah, blah blah.”
It’s all too much! Your customer has nothing to which he can compare the product or service, because…according to your copy…it’s ‘incomparable.’ So where does your customer go from there? Probably straight into your competitor’s arms.
Sometimes, fitting in with the crowd is a good thing. Creating a ‘paradigm shift’ only works on episodes of Caprica, and really has no place in good copy.
Keep it simple. Tell prospects what you do, and what you can do for them. Flex your creative muscle to highlight your skills, but don’t go nuts. Don’t reinvent the wheel. Find out what other successful individuals in your field are doing to promote themselves, and follow their lead. (I said follow, not plagiarize.) If it’s working for them, it will work for you.
Two great examples of simple, effective, people-catching copy can be found at www.petesavage.com and www.edgandia.com.
The truth is….your business is not unique. It is distinctive. There is a difference.



I’m particularly fond of “distinctive”
Nice post!
Good point, Victoria. Unfortunately, in world where every self-made internet marketer is using a bullhorn to announce how great they are (could we please kill this, too?), it can be very challenging for a new freelancer or other business owner to sift through the noise and be silent long enough to see the benefits of the products and/or services they offer. I think there are a lot of folks claiming to have all the answers (and shouting very loudly, mind you), but doing very little real educating about standing out in business. So, when people are confused, they resort to what feels safe–and what they once heard is supposed to work–and use phraseology like, “we’re unique,” to set themselves apart in the marketplace.
Funny and insightful…and painful in the respect that I’m currently working on a project that’s purposely over the top with its claims. I need an airsick bag next to my desk.
While we’re at it, can I add “unprecedented” to your list?!?
The word “distinctive” is terrific. It sounds like “It’s not about you, it’s about the service” to me. I believe the best people in any industry aspire to be something bigger than themselves, make logical choices along the way, and in the end turn out to be something unique. We shouldn’t start from the goal, I guess
Funny take on the matter. Yes, those “superlatives” are heartily overused.
You got it, Viqi…any words you’d like to add?
So right, Isao! The best copy focuses on the customer!
Definitely, Jake…that’s a great one! Love your comment about the airsick bag.:)
As always, Nichole, fantastic insights!
Yes, Dan, since I wrote this post I’ve been using ‘distinctive’ with great success!
I’m not a copywriter but I thought I’d interject anyway. As a novelist, one of the phrases that I hear over and over again is “show don’t tell”. A better way of getting noticed would be in showing how you’re distinctive. What is it that makes you special? Is there something about your experience that relates specifically to this client or niche. Has your copy sold millions for a specific client? What kinds of experiences do you have other than those skills involved with being a copywriter? Take a tip from a novelist and “show, don’t just tell” it helps prove your skills as a truly distinctive copywriter.
Victoria -
You definitely covered the topic uniquely
Great insights, Donna! Thanks so much for sharing!
Good one, Tom! Thanks for your support.